Book: Facing Violence by Rory Miller
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Release Date: May 1, 2011
Foreword by Barry Eisler
This book stands alone as an introduction to the context of self-defense. There are seven elements that must be addressed to bring self-defense training to something approaching ‘complete.’ Any training that dismisses any of these areas leaves you vulnerable.
1. Legal and ethical implications. A student learning self-defense must learn force law. Otherwise it is possible to train to go to prison. Side by side with the legal rules, every student must explore his or her own ethical limitations. Most do not really know where this ethical line lies within them.
2. Violence dynamics. Self-defense must teach how attacks happen. Students must be able to recognize an attack before it happens and know what kind they are facing.
3. Avoidance. Students need to learn and practice not fighting. Learning includes escape and evasion, verbal de-escalation, and also pure-not-be there avoidance.
4. Counter-ambush. If the student didn’t see the precursors or couldn’t successfully avoid the encounter he or she will need a handful of actions trained to reflex level for a sudden violent attack.
5. Breaking the freeze. Freezing is almost universal in a sudden attack. Students must learn to recognize a freeze and break out of one.
6. The fight itself. Most martial arts and self-defense instructors concentrate their time right here. What is taught just needs to be in line with how violence happens in the world.
7. The aftermath. There are potential legal, psychological, and medical effects of engaging in violence no matter how justified. Advanced preparation is critical.Any teacher or student of self-defense, anyone interested in self-defense, and any person who desires a deeper understanding of violence needs to read this book.
Gold Winner – 2012 eLit Award
Finalist – 2012 USA Best Books Award
Honorable Mention – 2012 Eric Hoffer Award
Al Dacascos, martial artist
For those of us who think we know it all... this book is a game changer.
Alain Burrese, J.D., former U.S. Army, author
Brutal honesty... from one who has seen it... first hand.
Barry Eisler (from his forward)
This book is about reality. Above all, it's useful.
Lieutenant Jon Lupo, New York State Police
When you are done, read it again!
Officer Kasey Keckeisen, training coordinator, Ramsey County SWAT
A must-read for all who teach others to deal with violence.
Dr. Kevin Keough, clinical and police pyschologist
Strips us of dangerous illusions we have about violence.
Marc 'Animal' McYoung, author
Not interested in ending up dead, crippled, or visiting the prison showers? Read this book.
Roy Bedard, Tallahassee Police Department
A gift for the careless adventurer or the lost navigator; a safe way out.
Steve Perry, New York Times bestselling co-author of Tom Clancy's Net Force series
These pages can save your life.
Toby Cowern, former Royal Marine, military security/counter-terrorism specialist
Know about how violent confrontations actually occur, and what to do about it.
Lawrence A. Kane, author
If your training doesn't encompass all seven of Miller's principles, it is dangerously incomplete.